Kevin Dibbley

             In my previous blog post, I laid out a biblical way to formulate a Christian philosophy of speaking (see http://www.kevindibbley.com/2014/09/developing-christian-philosophy-for-all.html ). It is clear from the Scriptures that how we speak as Christians is no small matter to God. It is also no small matter to those upon whose ears our words fall. Words do much good and much harm.             When we speak, we reflect the image of the Triune God who is eternally communicative within the communion of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. We have been created to share and to enjoy fellowship with God and with one another. Sin has made a royal mess of that. We all know that firsthand. Our words come out wrong intentionally and accidentally. Trying to express ourselves and to be understood has long been a major source of frustration for all people. ...

                      Very few people doubt the power of words to do good or to do harm. Developing a strategic mindset that aims at making our words powerful for good rather than for harm is not optional. Proverbs 12:18 warns and encourages us with these words: " There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing ." Rash words are words that are spoken quickly, carelessly, and without thinking. They do a great deal of harm. The tongue of the wise, that is, the person who has thought about how to use his or her words for good, brings healing in a world of hurt.             A simple but not insignificant question that every Christian should ask himself or herself is this: Do I have a clear Christian philosophy of talking? Have I a mission statement that directs and governs each and eve...

                       Every once in while, I try to find an "oldies" station as MariAnne and I are driving down the road. I especially like it when a classic sixties song like the Four Season's "Walk like a Man" begins to play. I pull out my rusty falsetto voice and begin to belt out in a high pitch voice "Oooo ooo oooo ooo ooo." MariAnne always looks over at me, smiles and says "You might be just a bit out of your range."  Which in my world translates "Keep singing honey, I am lovin' it."                What is particularly humorous about the song "Walk like a Man" is that no one sounds like they are walking or talking like a man. Most of the vocals are in the oxygen-less upper atmosphere such that you have to be a soprano in order to sing along. I will attach the link to an old video of the ...

                  I have a funny memory that serves as a helpful illustration to me demonstrating the invasive nature of sin. Several years ago, I was fishing with a friend in northwestern Ontario and I hooked into a lively fish. As the fish battled with me, I said to Norm "I think that this is a bass." Norm had owned a cabin on the lake for several decades and he replied, "There are no bass in this lake." It was a pristine Lake Trout lake and was known for big Lake Trout and huge Northern Pike. A few seconds later, I looked at the wide eyes of my friend as I held a nice little Smallmouth bass in my hand. That was the first bass that he had ever seen caught in this lake.             Today, the lake is overrun with Smallies. They came in. They took over. They were an aggressive and highly successful invasive species. You can find them in just abo...

                      As the horrific violence and brutality of the latest religious monster called the Islamic State of Iraq and Syria plays out daily before our eyes in the media, the need to think Christianly rather than instinctively is crucial. To think and then to respond as a Christian takes careful and continuous meditation on the teaching of Christ and the Scriptures. Often, our initial impulses are less than godly and are driven more by fear, anger (that may be justifiable), weariness with the widespread brokenness of the world, or hopelessness as we witness the propensity for human depravity to return each generation in its vilest forms when our longing is to see wickedness vanquished forever.             The call of Christ upon our lives is to go out into the world but our impulse can be to pull back and bec...

Here is a great quote from the Puritan pastor Richard Sibbes from his excellent work "Glorious Freedom: The Excellency of Gospel above the Law." In this quote, he teaches why the ascended Christ is of far greater benefit to the believer than the earthly Christ, now that the earthly Christ has finished the work of the cross. I have long thought that Christians should spend a great deal of time reflecting on the fact that Jesus is ascended and now reigns forever for us with all power and authority. Jesus said in John 16 that it was better that He go because then He could send us His Holy Spirit. Richard Sibbes reflects on how much better is now for the believer to have Christ high in the heavens like the sun being high in the sky: "As that glorious creature the sun by the advantage it hath being placed in the heavens above us, is able to shine upon the greatest part of the earth at all times; and we need not call the sun down from its place to come into our ...

Today, the children return to class at Los Pinares Academy in Tegucigalpa, Honduras. The first day back is always an exciting and nervous day for kids and parents. However, it is also a big day for teachers, especially if you are a teacher who wants to make a genuine lifelong difference in the lives of these young souls who are precious to God in heaven and therefore, extremely valuable to you. I thought I would send a note to my daughter, Lauren, who is teaching fourth grade. I know she takes her ministry very seriously and so today will be a big day. Dear Laur, Here are just a few words of encouragement as you jump into another school year: 1. Remember that God has planned this year to the smallest detail. Every blessing and trial, every interruption and school wide event is under the sovereignty of a God who has given Himself to do us great good. I read Spurgeon's "Morning and Evening" yesterday and found great encouragement fr...

" Doubtless the shadow of anticipated trouble is, to timorous minds, a more prolific source of sorrow than the trouble itself, but faith puts a strengthening plaister to the back of courage, and throws out of the window the dregs of the cup of trembling." C.H.Spurgeon             John Piper has a great line in which he says " Books don't change people. Sentences do. " That, of course, is a paraphrase but it is also a line that has changed me. I linger over sentences. My opening quote from the famous 19th century British preacher, Charles Spurgeon, reminded me of another line that gripped me many years ago. It was from an eighteenth century French Jesuit named Jean Nicholas Grou who I know nothing more about than this one quote. He wrote " The chief pang of most trials is not so much the actual suffering itself as our own spirit of resistance to it ."          ...